13 Tips to Get a Great Psychic Reading

Everyone would like to know what is going to happen in their future. Wouldn’t it be amazing if you know if you should take a job or if you should flirt with the waitress at your local restaurant? Or even if you’re aunt is going to pass on to the other side.

A psychic is someone that will give you readings and there are many people that are excited by this but others are scared at the idea. Whether you’re getting a psychic reading, a tarot card reading, astrological reading or some other kind of reading, this article can help you to make sure that you’re getting a great reading.

New things can make people feel a little anxious or fearful. This happens because of the beliefs that we get growing up and because of what society says. This is also part of us that helps to keep us safe from making bad decisions like jumping off of a building.

Even if you’ve had a reading before and they don’t scare you, there are things that you can do to make your readings more beneficial for you. If you want to have a fun reading, keep going and find out 13 tips to get you a great reading!

Understanding Fortune Telling

Once you understand the process of how a psychic reading works, you can get more information that will be valuable to you. This can help you to make the choices that are needed to better your life.

Your psychic might work with different tools, like a crystal ball or with tarot cards. They will use tools that they feel will give you the help that you need to move forward with your life.

1. The Future Isn’t Fixed, but It Moves With You

One of the most important things to understand about psychic readings is that the future isn’t something carved in stone. It’s flexible, changeable, and completely tied to your decisions. If you’re stuck in a job that drains you and you don’t take any steps to change your situation, chances are, nothing’s going to shift. But the second you start making moves like sending out résumés, learning new skills, having honest conversations at work, even just shifting your attitude, the energy around you begins to change, too.

Think of it like a tree. Your current situation is the trunk, but every choice you make opens a new branch. The more choices you make, the more possibilities unfold. A reading might show you the direction things are heading, but it’s not the end of the story. You still get to choose which branches you grow into.

Even little things can reroute your future. You might take a class that introduces you to someone who opens a new door. You might decide to speak your truth at work and find that your boss actually listens. All of that matters. Your actions ripple out, and your future ripples with them.

·       Send out resumes.

·       Take classes.

·       Read books.

·       Communicate.

·       Create fun at work.

·       Talk about how you’re feeling.

·       Change your attitude.

2. Your Happiness Isn’t In the Cards, but It’s in You

Here’s the truth: no psychic, no matter how skilled, can give you a guaranteed outcome. That’s because your happiness isn’t something a reading hands gives you. It’s something you build with your choices. What a reading can offer is insight or a peek at the path you’re on and some suggestions about where it might lead. But you’re always the one steering the wheel.

Some people go into readings thinking the reader will tell them exactly what’s going to happen. And while we might see strong potential, the most powerful part of any reading is showing you the options in front of you. If you keep doing what you’re doing, this is where it’s likely to go. But if you change something like your mindset, your habits, or your environment, then the outcome could be entirely different.

It’s kind of like standing at a crossroads with a map. The psychic can show you what’s down each road, but you’re the one who decides which direction to walk. And even if one path looks rocky, that doesn’t mean you’re stuck. You always have the power to change course.

3. Readings Work Best Within a Certain Window of Time

Because your actions affect everything around you, most readings have a kind of built-in expiration date. The clearest insights usually show up within the next 3 to 6 months. After that, things get a little murky and not because the spirit can’t see further, but because there are too many moving pieces to get an accurate picture.

Sometimes a client will ask me for a long-range forecast, and occasionally I’ll pick up something years ahead. But most of the time, readings are at their most useful when we focus on the present moment and the near future. That’s where the power is, in the choices you’re making right now.

I remember doing a reading for someone who wanted to move back to Japan. When we looked at the energy around it, I didn’t feel like the timing was right. Still, he asked when would be a better time. Normally, I don’t go digging for dates because of how fluid things are, but in that moment, a very specific time frame popped into my awareness. It was clear and felt right. I still don’t know how that photo is sitting on my phone, but one day I’ll figure out how to share it.

Here’s the thing: the more resistant someone is to change, the further ahead I can usually see. But that’s not necessarily a good thing. If you’re unhappy and not shifting anything, the future is just a loop of the present. The beauty of free will is that the moment you decide to grow, the entire timeline bends with you.

That’s why open-ended questions like “Will I be rich?” or “Will I ever find love?” don’t lead to very helpful answers. They reach so far into the future that it becomes a big “maybe” at best. A better approach is to ask, “What can I do in the next six months to move toward love or financial security?” That gives spirit something real to work with and gives you an action plan to walk away with.

4. Ask Clear Questions That Actually Help You

One of the most overlooked parts of a psychic reading is the question you bring to the table. If your question is too broad, vague, or hypothetical, your psychic might not be able to give you anything helpful and not because they aren’t talented, but because energy needs direction.

A good psychic can tap into a lot, but if you’re not clear on what you’re asking, it’s like tuning into a radio station with static statistics, something might come through, but it won’t sound great.

For example, asking “Will I be happy?” sounds simple, but it’s not. What does “happy” even mean to you? A new job? A peaceful home life? A vacation? That question doesn’t give your psychic anything to work with. A better question would be, “What steps can I take to bring more joy into my life right now?” or “How can I feel more fulfilled at work?” Those open a channel for real answers and guidance.

Another one that comes up a lot is “Will I ever find love?” That “ever” part is the trouble. Ever is a long time, and love comes in many forms. Maybe you’re already deeply loved by friends or pets. Maybe the right person hasn’t crossed your path yet. Instead, try asking, “What can I do to attract a healthy romantic relationship into my life?” That question shifts the focus to what you can do, not just what fate might hand you.

Questions like “When will I retire?” or “How many kids will I have?” are also too far in the future, and they don’t respect your freedom to choose. You might have the potential to have five kids or none. You might retire at 55 or pivot to a new career. Nothing is fixed. A better question would be, “What can I do to work toward retiring at 55?” or “Is this a good time to grow my family?”

And when it comes to pregnancy, instead of “Will it be a boy or a girl?” but ask something more meaningful. Like, “What do I need to know about raising this child well?” or “How can I best prepare emotionally and spiritually for this baby?” The gender will reveal itself in time but a deeper question can help you connect with the soul of your child even before they arrive.

At the heart of it, well-formed questions usually begin with phrases like “How can I…?” or “What steps should I take to…?” rather than “Will I…?” or “When will…?” When your question invites action and insight, the reading becomes a tool for growth, not just a guessing game.

Psychics aren’t here to guess the number in your head or rattle off lottery numbers. They’re here to help you live better. Give them something real to work with.

5. Remember It’s Your Reading, Not Someone Else’s

A psychic reading is meant to help you. Not your sister, your ex, your boss, or your friend who refuses to go to therapy. You’re the one sitting down and opening your energy, so the reading should stay in your lane.

A lot of people want to ask things like, “Is my ex seeing someone new?” or “Will my daughter ever leave her toxic relationship?” But here’s the thing: if that person isn’t there giving permission, it’s not really your business to know. Ethical readers will either reframe the question or decline to answer it entirely.

Instead of trying to peer into someone else’s path, ask, “What can I do to support my daughter right now?” or “How can I find peace and closure after my breakup?” That’s your journey, and that’s where the reading will hold real power.

Sometimes spirit will still bring up people connected to you. That’s natural because our lives are woven together. But the message will always come back to you. What’s your role? What’s your lesson? What energy are you holding onto that you’re ready to let go?

I once had a client going through a divorce, and she asked me whether her soon-to-be ex-husband would get remarried. I pulled a few cards just to check, and they clearly said, “Not yours to know.” Spirit has boundaries, too.

The more you focus on what’s actually in your control, the more your reading can offer healing, perspective, and movement forward. When we try to control someone else’s path, we end up missing out on our own.

6. A Note About Kids and Ethics

Now, when it comes to children, especially minor children, things are a little different. Since kids under 18 usually aren’t allowed to get readings on their own, I do make room for parents who are genuinely trying to help their kids. But even then, there are boundaries.

If your child is small and you’re worried about how to support them emotionally, spiritually, or energetically, that’s totally valid. Asking “How can I help my child feel more confident at school?” or “What can I do to guide them through this anxiety?” those are excellent questions.

But if your teenager is going through a rough patch and you ask me, “Is she sneaking out at night?” or “Is he doing drugs?” I might not answer directly. Teenagers, even if they’re under legal age, are still forming their sense of identity and privacy. Unless spirit shows me something urgent or dangerous, I’m going to steer the reading toward your role as a parent, not your kid’s secret life.

Readings should never be used as tools for spying. The point isn’t to dig for dirt. It’s to create better connection, understanding, and trust between you and your child, or between you and your own inner guidance.

If you’re worried about something going on with your child, that concern alone tells you it’s time to talk with them, not just to your psychic. A reading might give you insight into how to approach that talk with love and clarity, but the real work happens in your relationship, not the cards.

Spirit wants to protect your child, not expose them. And they want you to grow in your role as a parent, not bypass the hard stuff with a shortcut. Stay curious, stay respectful, and always ask questions with love.

Why Do Psychics Not Like to Do Child Readings

There are some reasons that psychics don’t like to do readings for children, such as:

·       The future isn’t set in stone: When parents ask about a child’s future, who knows what will happen? No one really knows because of free will and the choices that they will make in their lives.

·       Small children don’t understand: Children between 4 and 14 might not understand a reading and this will not help with their growth.

·       Attention deficit: Children might have attention deficit and this will not help them to sit through along reading without getting bored.

·       Misunderstanding things: Sometimes kids just misunderstand things, or they make things up. This can cause them to miss out on the importance of the reading.

·       Economic choice: Getting a reading as a child isn’t going to be helpful for the psychic. This is their income and they need to make money and doing a reading for a child will not help to make the psychic much money because the reading will have to be short.

7. Let Go of the “Prove It” Mindset

One of the fastest ways to block a good reading is by turning it into a test. Some people walk in with a chip on their shoulder, wanting the psychic to “prove” they’re real. You can spot it from a mile away with questions like:

“If you’re psychic, what am I thinking right now?”Let’s start with the obvious, if you’re asking that, you’re probably already thinking “I bet you don’t know.” But more importantly, that’s not how it works. Telepathy and intuitive guidance are not the same thing. Psychics aren’t always reading your thoughts — they’re tuning into energy, patterns, and possibilities.

And honestly, most of us don’t want to read your mind. There’s too much mental noise in the world already, and part of being a healthy intuitive is knowing how to shield from all that static. Imagine having a dozen radio stations playing in your head at once. No thanks.

We’re not here to spy, but we’re here to help. If we wanted to know your name or your thoughts, we’d just ask. It’s more respectful, and it frees us up to use our energy where it’s actually needed: guiding you through something meaningful.

“Okay, then… what’s my name?”This one usually gets a chuckle. I’ve joked before: “Wait, you don’t know your own name? That must be tough.” But all kidding aside, asking a psychic to guess your name isn’t a sign of curiosity, but it’s a wall going up. And if you put up walls, the energy doesn’t flow.

“Can you tell me the winning lottery numbers?”Let’s be real, if every psychic could pick lottery numbers with pinpoint accuracy, we’d all be living in castles by now. The truth is, the future is constantly shifting. Even if a psychic did see numbers, there’s no guarantee about when those numbers would hit. It might be next week… or it might be in 2047.

And most ethical readers aren’t here to fuel gambling addictions or get-rich-quick schemes. We’re here to help people grow, heal, and find clarity.

If you come in looking to challenge your reader instead of receiving guidance, it’s going to block the connection. Psychics are people, too. When they feel tested or disrespected, it becomes harder to tune in with their heart and trust. And ultimately, you lose out on the insight that brought you there in the first place.

8. Keep Your Energy Open

It’s natural to be a little nervous before a reading. Whether it’s your first time or your fiftieth, we all have parts of ourselves we want to protect. But shielding too much, either emotionally or energetically, can actually make it harder for your psychic to connect.

Think of a reading as a two-way street. You’re inviting someone to step into your energy field and help you make sense of what’s going on. If you show up guarded, angry, or silent, it’s like trying to read a book with the cover glued shut.

You don’t need to spill your deepest secrets right away, but try to come with an open heart. You’re not sitting down with an enemy, but you’re sitting down with someone who wants to help you see the bigger picture.

One helpful trick: as you settle in for your session, picture yourself opening a window, a book, or even just your palms. It’s a quiet way to say, “Okay, I’m open to hearing what I need to hear.” That alone can change the energy.

9. Be Honest With Your Psychic and Yourself

There’s really no upside to lying during a reading, not to your reader, and not to yourself. Some people come in thinking, “I’m going to test them and see if they can catch me in a lie.” But all that does is clutter the energy and waste everyone’s time.

Your psychic might not call you out directly, but trust me, they’ll feel it. The reading won’t flow. The messages won’t land. And instead of walking away with clarity, you’ll walk away with static.

On the flip side, sometimes people lie because they’re in denial, like maybe about a relationship, a health concern, or something painful they’re not ready to face. That’s okay. We’ve all been there. But if you’re truly looking for guidance, you’ll get so much more out of your reading if you show up ready to face the truth, even the hard parts.

Psychics aren’t here to judge you. They’re here to help. And sometimes that means gently shining a light on something you’ve been avoiding. But you get to choose how to respond. Healing begins with honesty.

10. Stay Focused On What Matters Most

To get the most out of your session, come in with a clear focus. You might have a hundred things on your mind, like love, work, money, your best friend’s drama, your neighbour's noisy dog, but if you throw them all into the mix at once, the reading will get scattered.

Instead, start with the biggest thing on your heart. What’s keeping you up at night? What’s the one question that, if answered, would help you breathe easier?

Once that core issue is addressed, your reader might invite you to explore other questions. But giving the reading a strong starting point allows the energy to settle and the messages to come through clearly.

Remember, this is your time. Don’t rush it. Don’t dilute it. Let yourself sink into the question that matters most and be open to the answers, even if they surprise you.

11. Let Your Reader Know What’s Resonating

One of the most helpful things you can do during a reading is speak up when something clicks or when it doesn’t. If your psychic brings up something that aligns with what’s going on in your life, it’s not about giving them validation. It’s about opening the door to go deeper into the message. The more context you share, the more detailed and accurate the guidance can become.

Even if a psychic phrases something in a way that seems off at first, it might make more sense once you explain the situation you're thinking of. For example, if your reader asks about tension with a boss, but your real conflict is with your mother, sharing that insight may shift the direction of the reading and make it more useful. Often, issues with parents can show up as authority figures, so this can actually confirm the reading rather than negate it.

Instead of thinking of the session as a test, treat it as a collaboration. Psychics aren’t trying to guess at facts, but they’re trying to guide you toward clarity. Sharing how something connects gives them the chance to help you more effectively.

12. Be Willing to Explore Symbols

Not everything in a reading comes through in a literal way. Sometimes the messages show up in metaphors, symbols, or quick flashes of imagery. That doesn’t mean they’re random, but it just means they may need a little interpretation.

Let’s say your reader sees a duck. That could mean a lot of things, depending on how you personally relate to it. Maybe it reminds you of a childhood pet. Maybe it makes you think of calmness or the phrase “like water off a duck’s back.” Or maybe it’s completely random, until you realize your ex used to collect rubber duckies. Once you say that out loud, suddenly the message starts to take shape.

These images are part of your unique language with the universe, and you get to help decode them. Even if you don’t know what it means right away, try to sit with it for a moment. Sometimes, the meaning pops in later when you least expect it.

13. Know When the Reading Is Complete

It’s normal to want to get the most out of your session, especially if something powerful is coming through. But it’s also important to recognize when it’s time to close the space. Some readers charge by the hour or by the minute, while others work for tips or set flat fees. Either way, there’s a natural energetic limit to what can be covered in one sitting.

Psychic readings take energy not just emotional energy, but mental and spiritual focus too. If you keep digging for answers past the main focus of your session, the clarity may start to fade, and the accuracy might drop. It's a little like using a flashlight that starts to dim, eventually, it’s best to give it a break and come back later with fresh energy and intention.

It also helps to remember that many readings work best when the questions are aligned with one major theme. Trying to jump from love to career to health to someone else’s energy can create mixed messages and confusion. You’ll get the clearest answers when your focus is strong and your energy is grounded.

If you still have questions at the end, that’s totally okay. Schedule another session, come back when you’ve had time to reflect, or journal about what you learned so far. Respecting the limits of the session allows both you and your reader to stay connected to the flow of the reading and opens the door for even better insights down the road.

Final Thoughts

A psychic reading isn’t about proving anything. It’s a moment to reconnect with yourself, to pause, and to tune into a deeper part of your life that’s often drowned out by noise and distraction. The best sessions happen when there’s trust, mutual respect, and a willingness to be open to the process, even if it feels unfamiliar at first.

Your energy, intentions, and mindset play a huge role in what you get out of the experience. When you show up grounded, honest, and ready to receive not just the messages you want to hear, but the ones you need, your reading becomes something more than just insight. It becomes healing.

Whether you're seeking clarity, peace, or simply a reminder that you're not walking through life alone, every reading holds the potential for something powerful. Let it meet you where you are, and don’t be afraid to come back when you're ready for the next layer.

Trust yourself, trust your journey, and trust that real guidance always finds a way to show up when you're open to it.